Who is in charge of our minds? The lizard or the poet?

lizardbrainWe all know how fear feels. And most of us probably don’t have to think too far back to remember the last time we felt fear. Maybe the boss was acting funny that day and you felt in danger of losing your job. Or maybe you were driving, thought you knew where you were going, and suddenly found yourself lost. Whatever the cause and whatever the setting, fear involves a high degree of activity in a particular part of the human brain, called the amygdala, often referred to casually as the “lizard brain.” Every human has one, and while some people are more conditioned than others to have an active amygdala, every one of us owes our existence in large part to this tiny part of our brains, for it is here that our survival instinct gets the most “air time” in our brains.

At the other end of the spectrum is the cerebral cortex, the site of our inner poets. Here is where all of humanity’s refined judgments and accomplishments of the imagination are mustered: our dreams, our hopes, our plans. Our tolerant “best self” is here: the part of us that sees subtle shades of complexity and wants to understand more clearly. The part of us that listens, understands, forgives.

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How to be a good storyteller and a good listener in intercultural settings

Hi, I-House folks! My name is Taeho Kim and I am an exchange undergraduate student from South Korea. I am studying Systems Biology at my home university and Integrative Biology here at UC Berkeley. I would like to tell you briefly about what was covered at the second session of the Intercultural Leadership Initiative.

The theme of the session was “Our Intercultural Stories.” We discussed what is important about storytelling in intercultural settings and how to be good listeners for the speakers who have different cultural backgrounds. And lastly, we exchanged our own intercultural tales represented by posters, which we made before the session.

What do you think are the most important aspects of giving a presentation to people from different countries? For someone who is nervous in front of audience like I am, you might say that practicing as much as possible is critical. However, what we discussed focused on how to organize the way we present our stories most effectively in special circumstances. Continue reading

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Getting By With a Little Help from a Stranger

WeraVonWulfen_PhotoMy name is Wera von Wulfen and this is my first semester here at International House. I am a graduate exchange student from Germany, studying Psychology. These first weeks at I-House, including our wonderful new resident retreat, have already shown me the importance of good communication and leadership skills. Now, I hope to expand my knowledge regarding leadership and cross-cultural communication by participating in the Intercultural Leadership Initiative (ILI) here at I-House. In order to share with you a little bit about what happens during our ILI workshops, I want to tell you about one interesting observation I had in our first session.

After a round of introductions during our first meeting on Wednesday, we delved right into our first exercise. Three of us volunteered to leave the room, without knowing what the following exercise would entail. When each of us came back individually, the rest of the group had formed a new community, portraying a new culture altogether. Our mission was to “fit into that new culture” by performing a specific action. The action, of course, was for us to figure out. Continue reading

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Every Kind of People at Sunday Supper

One of the oldest continuing International House traditions, Sunday Supper is a wonderful celebration of multicultural community and fellowship.  The February 8th Sunday Supper began with a video montage of images of resident experiences alongside the lyrics to Robert Palmer’s song “Every Kinda People.”

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Resident Masters of Ceremonies, from left: Neel Patel (India), Saachi Makkar (USA), Maliha Bhola (USA/Pakistan) and Mustapha Khokhar (Pakistan).

The theme resonated throughout the evening with a rousing performance of “Lift Every Voice and Sing” the Black National Anthem, by guest singer Marguerite Hinrichs, Director of Student Life & Leadership Programs at Cal State East Bay.  Lyrics to the song were provided at each seat so attendees could sing along.

 

 

SideeSpeakingSidee Dlamini, one of the MasterCard Foundation Scholars currently living at I-House, expressed gratitude in her speech Accomplishments and Aspirations:
“‘It takes every kind of people,’ reminds me of the African proverb ‘It takes a whole village to raise a child.’ Whether you want to admit this or not, and whether you can relate to villages or not, this proverb still holds true.

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Welcome to the U.S.: Peaches and Coconuts

Coconut and peachI often hear something like the following from first-time visitors to the U.S., including many who are I-House residents: “Americans are so friendly.” Sometimes after this comes a comment along the lines of, “…but they’re very superficial.”

In the study of intercultural relations one “dimension” of culture that has been proposed (by Dutch consultant Fons Trompenaars) is “specific” vs. “diffuse.” It’s not at all clear what these names mean, so sometimes people use a metaphor of peaches vs. coconuts. Continue reading

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The Bhutanese Dream Awakens

Gabriel García Márquez used to say that all human beings have three lives: a public one, a private one and a secret one.

My secret life, so private that I keep it just to myself, has always been quite ample.
Yesterday, without expecting it at all, I met a very nice part of it right here at I-House when resident Wangpo Jigme Tsheltrim came to the Front Desk to ask me for information.

Jigme comes from the kingdom of Bhutan, an area of the world I have been reading about a lot during my University years. It was not an official subject of my studies but I somehow fell in love with this very small country at the eastern end of the Himalayas, to the point that I even studied Dzongkha, the official language, for a little while.

Of course, the Gross National Happiness (GNH) Index, introduced by Bhutanese King Jigme Singye Wangchuck was intriguing to me.

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Where are they now? Sunny J. Mistry

Greetings from Berkeley. We’re launching a new Where are they now series on this blog so you can see what alumni are doing after life at I-House.  I’ve tracked down Sunny J. Mistry for our first subject and will share our conversation below.

So, where is he now?
Hint: It’s even more Sunny in Cupertino!

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Welcome to the U.S.: Alcohol

No AlcoholToday we begin a new intermittent series on U.S. American culture, mostly for the benefit of our international students, but hopefully also enlightening for readers from the U.S.

First a note on terminology. In the intercultural world, “U.S. American” is preferred to “American,” because “American,” as it is normally used, does not include all the other “Americas,” such as Central America, South America, and the non-U.S. countries of what is commonly referred to as North America.

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Jan 26 – Feb 1 Stadium Field Club Menu

As a reminder, I-House Dining Services will be temporarily located at the Stadium Field Club this semester for the Dining Commons Transformation Project. Continue reading

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I-House Resident and Alumni Blogger Awards

By now you may have seen our blog’s 2014  in review and annual report. The residents and alumni who wrote blog posts during our “pilot season” deserve to be recognized for their creative writing, unique perspectives and multi-lingual skills. Each author shared a taste of the extraordinary happenings at International House—we are grateful for their contributions and for sharing the love!

Fall 2014 Resident Bloggers

Michelle ChangMichelle Chang, an exchange student from New Zealand studying architecture, earned a special I Love I-House badge for her creative Harry Potter themed post and her thoughtful Ode to… series.
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